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Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on divination, and specifically within the divination category, resources on scrying, so this article is the beginning of many resources to come.

What is scrying?

An overview of scrying

Scrying is a form of divination that involves gazing into a reflective surface, such as a crystal ball, a pool of water, or a mirror, to receive visions or gain insight. Practitioners of scrying can access information about the past, present, or future through the images and symbols that appear on the reflective surface. The act of scrying is often used to gain intuitive insights, to communicate with spirits or divine entities, and to explore the subconscious mind.

When people begin the process of learning divination, they are tapping into a large supply of energy and wisdom within themselves and can quickly become susceptible to being drained, exhausted, fatigued, etc., so it’s incredibly important to take divination slow.

Getting started with scrying

Start with Grounding, Cleansing, and Protecting Yourself and Your Space

How to Ground Yourself

Grounding before divination is important as it ensures that you are connected to your body, the material realm, and very much present for any messages that will come through. You can ground your energy in several ways including, spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, and more. Remember that grounding is a personal practice, so feel free to explore different techniques and find what works best for you.

How to Cleanse Your Space

To cleanse the energy of your space before practicing divination, you can smoke cleanse with sacred dried herbs, sound cleanse with bells or singing bowls, or utilize energy-clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends. Each method has its unique way of clearing energy and creating a positive environment for your divination session, so use whatever method is easily doable and works best for you. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing the space you’ll be working in of any negative or stagnant energy so that you have a neutral starting point.

How to Protect Your Space

After cleansing the space to bring it to a neutral state energetically speaking, you’ll then want to protect yourself and the space from any additional unwanted energies from entering during the divination session. This is a critical step as it helps minimize the risk of any disturbances or connecting with any energies that aren’t aligned with your highest good. Protection can be implemented by setting an energetic boundary, such as casting a circle, if this aligns with your spiritual path and beliefs, wearing protective crystals, such as black obsidian, black tourmaline, or hematite, or casting a protection spell.

Learning the Basics

1. Choose a scrying tool: Common options include a crystal ball, black mirror, water bowl, or candle flame. The main idea is to look “into” surfaces that act as in-between places, or portals if you will, to see what is reflected in the microcosmic space you’re peering into. The theory behind this can even be thought of scientifically, that everything taking place in the macrocosmic (big universe) is reflected in all of its smaller elements. This makes scrying a practice of receiving messages about big-picture concepts happening in the cosmos through looking at the patterns and imagery depicted within these smaller places or surfaces. You can learn to scry with any of these tools:

  • Polished obsidian stone
  • Oil surface in a dark container
  • Smoke from incense or a fire
  • Reflective surfaces like mirrors or polished metal
  • Ink pools
  • Tea leaves
  • Coffee grounds
  • Clouds in the sky
  • Fire embers
  • Wax drippings
  • Glass of wine
  • Polished quartz or other gemstones
  • Sand patterns
  • Soap bubbles
  • Ice surface
  • Egg whites in water
  • Moonlit pond or lake surface
  • Shiny metal objects like spoons or jewelry

2. Create a calm environment: Find a quiet space, dim the lights, and light candles or incense if desired. It’s important to be in a distraction-free zone so that outside information doesn’t disturb the subtle messages you’re about to receive.

3. Cleanse your tool(s): Use sacred incense, moonlight, or visualization to purify your scrying surface. This is important as liminal spaces can easily capture energy we may not want to connect with and this brings it to a neutral state.

4. Enter a meditative state: Take deep breaths and clear your mind of distractions. Allow your own thoughts to drift in and out without paying attention to them. Focus on your scrying surface of choice.

5. Gaze softly: Look into your scrying tool without straining your eyes. Allow your focus to soften. If you’ve never done this before, it’s similar to when you gently unfocus your eyes and allow yourself to see “double”…but don’t overdo it. The goal is to look at imagery that enters the eyes and brain that is “in-between” the information that your left eye and right eye are independently receiving and interpreting as a singular 3D image. In between the two sets of information being received by your eyes is a third “liminal space” where light, color, shapes, etc. look blurry and move differently. That is what you want to focus on.

6. Be patient: It may take time to see images or receive impressions. Don’t force it.

7. Interpret what you see: Pay attention to symbols, colors, or emotions that arise while scrying. After you’re finished, always thank the surface or tool you used to scry with as it held precious wisdom and energy for you to peer into, and for a brief moment was an extension of your own inner wisdom.

8. Record your experience: Keep a journal of your scrying sessions to track progress. If possible, draw what you saw to reflect on as well.

9. Practice regularly: Develop your skills through consistent practice.

10. Trust your intuition: As you gain experience, learn to interpret the messages you receive and think about how they fit in with greater cosmic events taking place in your life, the collective, or the world around you.

May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.

Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on divination, and specifically within the divination category, resources on runes, so this article is the beginning of many resources to come.

What are runes?

An overview of runes

Runes are an ancient form of divination that originated in Northern Europe. Runes are a set of symbols, each with its own meaning, that are cast or drawn to provide insight and guidance. Practitioners of rune divination, known as rune casters, interpret the patterns and positions of the runes to gain an understanding of a person’s past, present, and future. Runes are often used to gain clarity on important decisions, identify potential obstacles, and connect with one’s intuition. The practice of rune divination remains popular today as a means of self-reflection and spiritual exploration.

When people begin the process of learning divination, they are tapping into a large supply of energy and wisdom within themselves and can quickly become susceptible to being drained, exhausted, fatigued, etc., so it’s incredibly important to take divination slow.

Getting started with runes

Start with Grounding, Cleansing, and Protecting Yourself and Your Space

How to Ground Yourself

Grounding before divination is important as it ensures that you are connected to your body, the material realm, and very much present for any messages that will come through. You can ground your energy in several ways including, spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, and more. Remember that grounding is a personal practice, so feel free to explore different techniques and find what works best for you.

How to Cleanse Your Space

To cleanse the energy of your space before practicing divination, you can smoke cleanse with sacred dried herbs, sound cleanse with bells or singing bowls, or utilize energy-clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends. Each method has its unique way of clearing energy and creating a positive environment for your divination session, so use whatever method is easily doable and works best for you. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing the space you’ll be working in of any negative or stagnant energy so that you have a neutral starting point.

How to Protect Your Space

After cleansing the space to bring it to a neutral state energetically speaking, you’ll then want to protect yourself and the space from any additional unwanted energies from entering during the divination session. This is a critical step as it helps minimize the risk of any disturbances or connecting with any energies that aren’t aligned with your highest good. Protection can be implemented by setting an energetic boundary, such as casting a circle, if this aligns with your spiritual path and beliefs, wearing protective crystals, such as black obsidian, black tourmaline, or hematite, or casting a protection spell.

Learning the Basics

Gather your runes:

Rune sets typically consist of 24-25 runes, each representing a different symbol or meaning. Our preferred runes are the Elder Futhark Runes since they are the oldest known runic alphabet (used from around the 2nd to 8th centuries CE), but there are multiple different types including, the Anglo-Saxon Futhorc: A variant of the Elder Futhark used in Anglo-Saxon England from the 5th to 11th centuries CE, the Younger Futhark: A simplified version of the Elder Futhark used in Scandinavia from the 8th to 12th centuries CE, Medieval Runes: Runic alphabets used in Scandinavia and Iceland from the 12th to 15th centuries CE, Staveless Runes: A type of runic alphabet without the characteristic vertical “stave” lines, and Bind Runes: Ligatures formed by combining two or more runes into a single symbol, and Icelandic Runes: Runes used in Iceland from the 16th to 19th centuries CE.

Elder Futhark Runes:

  • ᚠ (Fehu) – Wealth, Cattle
  • ᚢ (Uruz) – Aurochs, Strength
  • ᚦ (Thurisaz) – Thorn, Giant
  • ᚨ (Ansuz) – Mouth, Breath, God
  • ᚱ (Raido) – Riding, Journey
  • ᚲ (Kenaz) – Torch, Knowledge
  • ᚷ (Gebo) – Gift
  • ᚹ (Wunjo) – Joy, Harmony
  • ᚺ (Hagalaz) – Hail, Destruction
  • ᚾ (Naudhiz) – Need, Hardship
  • ᛁ (Isaz) – Ice, Stagnation
  • ᛃ (Jera) – Year, Harvest
  • ᛇ (Eihwaz) – Yew Tree, Death
  • ᛈ (Perthro) – Dice Cup, Mysteries
  • ᛉ (Algiz) – Elk, Protection
  • ᛋ (Sowilo) – Sun, Victory
  • ᛏ (Tiwaz) – Tyr, Justice
  • ᛒ (Berkano) – Birch, Birth
  • ᛖ (Ehwaz) – Horse, Partnership
  • ᛗ (Mannaz) – Man, Humanity
  • ᛚ (Laguz) – Water, Flow
  • ᛜ (Ingwaz) – Ing, Fertility
  • ᛞ (Dagaz) – Day, Breakthrough
  • ᛟ (Othala) – Inheritance, Homeland

Cleanse and consecrate your runes:

This can be done through meditation, visualization, or ritual. This helps ensure the runes are energetically neutral so that any messages to be received can come through clearly.

Cast the runes:

Hold the runes in your hands and focus your intention on the question or issue you want to explore. Cast onto a flat surface, such as a cloth or board. Allow them to fall randomly.

Interpret the runes:

Interpret the runes that fall onto the cloth or board face-up. Look at their individual meanings as well as their positions and relationships to each other. Use your intuition and knowledge of rune meanings to provide insight into the question or situation.

The position of a rune within a rune cast or spread can provide important context for its meaning. Runes placed in the central or focus position tend to represent the core issue or energy at hand. Surrounding runes can provide additional details, influences, or potential outcomes related to the central rune.

The relationship between runes is also significant. Runes that are next to or touching each other often have a synergistic meaning, combining their individual energies. Runes that are reversed or inverted may indicate challenges, obstacles, or a less favorable expression of that rune’s qualities. Runes that are far apart in the spread may represent disconnected or conflicting elements.

The overall pattern formed by the runes can reveal larger themes, cycles, or dynamics at play. Paying attention to the spatial relationships, alignments, and clustering of the runes can help uncover deeper insights and meanings in the rune reading.

While learning to effectively cast runes, record your runecasting session for future reference and reflection. At the end of your session, be sure to give thanks to the runes, the spiritual realm, and any other spirits present for the session (if applicable) and properly store your runes until the next time you wish to cast them.

May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.

Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on divination, so this article is the beginning of many resources to come.

What is divination?

An overview of divination

Divination can be thought of as any form of communication with the divine (or spiritual) realm. It may include tapping into the energy of the past, present, or future, as well as tapping into the wisdom that exists outside of the human constructs of time.

Personally, I like to think of divination as a conversation that can take place when typical human methods for communicating are less practical or those abilities are not yet developed. For example, if someone can see or hear spirits, they may receive their messages from the divine or spirit realms through their eyes and ears in a very literal way, much like how two humans would converse.

This particular ability is not everyone’s gift, strong suit, or preferred method for communication, though, as it can be energetically taxing. Because of this, many practitioners may learn alternative methods for receiving those same messages specifically through the use of divination tools, such as runes, tarot, pendulums, scrying, reading tea leaves, and so on. There is no “wrong” or “right” method of communicating with the divine, it simply comes down to the individual practitioner’s preference, comfort level, and ability to receive messages clearly.

Who typically practices divination?

People who are naturally drawn to and connected with the spiritual realm are the main practitioners of divination. They are typically people who crave deeper insight, wisdom, knowledge, and the like that can be gleaned by both looking inward, through self-reflection and looking to the patterns of the cosmos by looking outwards. In reality, anyone can learn what goes into any given divination method, but it takes someone truly in tune with their intuition, higher self, and the collective conscious to clearly receive messages that will provide deeper insight. This comes through practice, practice, practice. And taking a significant amount of time to unlearn closed-minded ways of thinking, learn to embrace open-minded ways of thinking, and most importantly, heal!

How will I feel once I start practicing divination?

Divination requires directed energy and intentions, as well as a connection to your intuition and the spiritual realm surrounding you. Newer practitioners may find themselves feeling like they’re swimming in new information, especially when learning a divination method that requires a lot of memorization (like with tarot, runes, etc.). This might make someone feel somewhat tired, drained, or fatigued due to information overload or excess amounts of energy being tapped into, but generally speaking, practicing divination shouldn’t have a tremendous toll on you if you’re properly grounding and taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

For me, I also take into consideration the type of connection being made when divining. Simple messages from Spirit may have nearly no energetic toll on a practitioner, whereas a mediumship session with an entity from another realm or place in time could be incredibly draining. All the more reason to properly rest and ground before and after any divination sessions.

Is Divination Evil?

Divination is not evil. At its core, divination is no different than someone who prays, asks a higher power for a sign or message, or flips open their bible to a random verse and takes it as their daily insight for the day. Is it possible to communicate with or tap into energy that is undesirable, ill-intended, or malicious even? Of course, anything is possible when tapping into the spirit realm, but that is why spiritual practitioners are intentional about who or what they’re connecting with, as well as practicing grounding, cleansing, and protection. That way they are only connecting with beings that are aligned with their highest good. Can it be dangerous? No, divination itself is not dangerous. If for some reason a practitioner feels like something not aligned with their highest good has occurred during a divination session, again, that is where grounding, cleansing, protection, and even banishing, if necessary comes into play. But is divination inherently dangerous or evil? No, not at all.

Should I be scared of divination?

While it can be scary to perform any new type of spiritual practice, there really isn’t anything to fear with divination. To overcome fears surrounding divination, start with something simple, such as pulling a single oracle or tarot card after asking “What can I focus my energy on today?”, and then branch out as your confidence grows.

Embracing Divination

What to know before getting started

When people begin the process of learning divination, they are tapping into a large supply of energy and wisdom within themselves and can quickly become susceptible to being drained, exhausted, fatigued, etc., so it’s incredibly important to take divination slow.

Start with Grounding, Cleansing, and Protecting Yourself and Your Space

How to Ground Yourself

Grounding before divination is important as it ensures that you are connected to your body, the material realm, and very much present for any messages that will come through. You can ground your energy in several ways including, spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, and more. Remember that grounding is a personal practice, so feel free to explore different techniques and find what works best for you.

How to Cleanse Your Space

To cleanse the energy of your space before practicing divination, you can smoke cleanse with sacred dried herbs, sound cleanse with bells or singing bowls, or utilize energy-clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends. Each method has its unique way of clearing energy and creating a positive environment for your divination session, so use whatever method is easily doable and works best for you. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing the space you’ll be working in of any negative or stagnant energy so that you have a neutral starting point.

How to Protect Your Space

After cleansing the space to bring it to a neutral state energetically speaking, you’ll then want to protect yourself and the space from any additional unwanted energies from entering during the divination session. This is a critical step as it helps minimize the risk of any disturbances or connecting with any energies that aren’t aligned with your highest good. Protection can be implemented by setting an energetic boundary, such as casting a circle, if this aligns with your spiritual path and beliefs, wearing protective crystals, such as black obsidian, black tourmaline, or hematite, or casting a protection spell.

Methods of Divination

Tarot Cards

Tarot is a form of divination that uses a deck of cards to gain insight and guidance. The tarot deck consists of 78 cards, divided into the Major Arcana and the Minor Arcana. The Major Arcana represents the larger, more significant events and archetypes in life, while the Minor Arcana deals with the everyday challenges and experiences. Tarot readers interpret the symbolism and meaning of the cards drawn to provide insights and predictions about a person’s life, relationships, and future. Tarot reading is often used for self-reflection, decision-making, and gaining a deeper understanding of one’s circumstances and emotions.

Oracle Cards

Oracle cards are a form of divination that uses a deck of cards, each with its own unique imagery and meaning. Unlike traditional tarot cards, oracle cards do not follow a specific structure or system. Instead, they are designed to provide intuitive guidance and insight through the symbolism and messages on the cards. Oracle card readings are often used for self-reflection, personal growth, and exploring various aspects of one’s life. The process typically involves shuffling the deck and selecting one or more cards, which are then interpreted based on the card’s imagery and the reader’s intuitive understanding. Oracle card readings can offer a flexible and accessible way for individuals to connect with their inner wisdom and gain clarity on various life situations.

Runes

Runes are an ancient form of divination that originated in Northern Europe. Runes are a set of symbols, each with its own meaning, that are cast or drawn to provide insight and guidance. Practitioners of rune divination, known as rune casters, interpret the patterns and positions of the runes to gain an understanding of a person’s past, present, and future. Runes are often used to gain clarity on important decisions, identify potential obstacles, and connect with one’s intuition. The practice of rune divination remains popular today as a means of self-reflection and spiritual exploration.

Pendulum

Pendulum divination is a form of dowsing that uses a suspended weight on the end of a string or chain to obtain answers to questions. The pendulum is held loosely and allowed to swing freely. The direction and pattern of the pendulum’s movements are interpreted to provide information about the question asked. Pendulums are commonly used to locate lost objects, identify energies or auras, clear energy blockages in the body, and gain insight on specific “yes and no” type questions and topics.

Tea Leaves

Tea leaf reading, also known as tasseography (also known as tasseomancy, tassology, or tasseology), is a form of divination that uses the patterns formed by tea leaves in the bottom of a cup to interpret a person’s future or gain insight into their life. The process involves brewing a cup of tea, swirling the leaves around, and then turning the cup over to allow the leaves to settle. The reader then interprets the shapes, symbols, and patterns left behind in the cup to provide insights and predictions. Tea leaf reading is believed to have originated in Asia and has been practiced for centuries as a way to gain wisdom and foresight through the examination of the tea leaves.

Scrying

Scrying is a form of divination that involves gazing into a reflective surface, such as a crystal ball, a pool of water, or a mirror, to receive visions or gain insight. Practitioners of scrying can access information about the past, present, or future through the images and symbols that appear on the reflective surface. The act of scrying is often used to gain intuitive insights, to communicate with spirits or divine entities, and to explore the subconscious mind.

May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.

Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on rituals, including cord cuttings and this article is the beginning of many resources to come.

What is a cord cutting?

An overview of cord cuttings

Cord cuttings, often referred to as a “Cutting the Cord” ritual, are intended to sever the energetic cord between you and another person. People who are inexperienced with energy work may opt to have a more experienced practitioner perform the work for them, but many people choose to perform this ritual on their own as the steps you walk through can be very therapeutic and releasing feelings. This is especially true if the person you are cutting off was someone who brought a lot of trauma, harm, abuse, or toxicity to your life.

Keep in mind that when you are performing any type of ritual or spellwork, your intentions are the most important thing, so take time to meditate on and determine what your goal for the working is. It might be to move on from an ex, heal from a toxic friendship, or move past the abuse of a family member. At the end of the day, what your end goal is has to be clearly defined by you.

Another important thing to keep in mind is that cord cuttings are intended to be permanent, so if the person you are “cutting the cord” from is someone you think you might return to being in a relationship with later on in life, this may not be the ideal ritual for that situation.

Additionally, I like to always encourage people to practice safely when dabbling in energy work because our intentions hold a great deal of power, and sometimes things we set in motion through our will can have consequences that are outside the scope of what we thought might occur or happen as a result of our working. This makes it especially important to focus our intentions on separating the other person’s energy from ourselves, and not doing things on other people’s behalf without their explicit permission.

If there are multiple people that you desire to cut the cord from, I’ve found it most effective to perform the ritual for each individual scenario, rather than lumping them all together into one singular working.

Supplies you’ll need for the ritual

The most powerful tool at your disposal is always your mind and your intentions. To physically perform the ritual with tangible ingredients, which can help you stay focused and aligned with the outcome of the ritual, here are some useful tools:

  • 2 Candles (If available, use 1 white candle to represent yourself and 1 black candle to represent the energy you are severing from yourself. If you do not have access to 1 white and 1 black candle, you can alternatively use 2 white candles or 2 black candles.)
  • String (Thread, yarn, or a cord)
  • Salt (I prefer sea salt)
  • A fire-safe plate or dish (You may also opt to use a foil disposable cookware container)
  • Lighter or matches
  • Pen (Pencil, knife, or other object that could work for gentle carving into the candles)

Getting started with your cord cutting

Start with Grounding, Cleansing, and Protecting Yourself and Your Space

How to Ground Yourself

Grounding before rituals is important as it ensures that you are connected to your body, the material realm, and very much present for the working. You can ground your energy in several ways including, spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, and more. Remember that grounding is a personal practice, so feel free to explore different techniques and find what works best for you.

How to Cleanse Your Space

To cleanse the energy of your space before a ritual, you can smoke cleanse with sacred dried herbs, sound cleanse with bells or singing bowls, or utilize energy-clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends. Each method has its unique way of clearing energy and creating a positive environment for your divination session, so use whatever method is easily doable and works best for you. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing the space you’ll be working in of any negative or stagnant energy so that you have a neutral starting point.

HOW TO PROTECT YOUR SPACE

After cleansing the space to bring it to a neutral state energetically speaking, you’ll then want to protect yourself and the space from any additional unwanted energies from entering during the ritual. This is a critical step as it helps minimize the risk of any disturbances. Protection can be implemented by setting an energetic boundary, such as casting a circle, if this aligns with your spiritual path and beliefs, wearing protective crystals, such as black obsidian, black tourmaline, or hematite, or casting a protection spell.

You can protect your space and create a protective circle with the support of the elements using the steps below.

Facing East, speak: “Thank you to the East and the element of Air for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting. Hail and welcome!”

Turning right and facing South, speak: “Thank you to the South and the element of Fire for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting. Hail and welcome!”

Turning right and facing West, speak: “Thank you to the West and the element of Water for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting. Hail and welcome!”

Turning right and facing North, speak: “Thank you to the North and the element of Earth for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting. Hail and welcome!”

Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on creating wards, so this article is the beginning of many resources to come.

HOW TO GO ABOUT THE CORD CUTTING

After effectively grounding yourself and cleansing and protecting the space you’ll be working in, here is a step-by-step method for performing a simple cord cutting. Remember, after the cord cutting is created, you will want to close out the ritual in reverse order by re-protecting yourself and your space, re-cleansing yourself and your space from any lingering negative or stagnant energy, and re-grounding yourself to diffuse built-up energy from the working itself. AND THEN taking plenty of time to rest and recharge your energy.

Take the candle that is going to represent you and gently carve your name into the side of it infusing your intentions that this is connected to your energy. Take the candle that is going to represent the person you are cutting the cord from and gently carve their name into the side of it infusing your intentions that it is connected to the energy you want severed from yourself.

Stand your candles on the fireproof tray a couple of inches apart. I find it helpful to slightly heat up the bottoms of the candle so the wax starts to slightly melt so that they’ll adhere to the dish without following over. Tie them together with the string (see photo example.)

Surround the entire set up of the working and/or the individual candles themselves with salt to symbolize the grounded intentions of this working and that you intend to protect yourself and the other person from harm, but while still severing the energetic cord that links the two of you.

Light both of the candles and state the following:

“As the cord is cut and the candles burned, I cut all ties with that for which I yearned.
I release what no longer serves me. As I will it, so mote it be”

Sit and meditate as the candles burn and the cord is cut, and visualize your energetic attachment to the person being severed. Feel yourself becoming detached, empowered, and able to move on without them in your life. Pay close attention to the moment when the cord catches fire and dissolves between the two candles. Allow the candles to burn all the way down or until you feel drawn to snuff the candles out, but make sure this is after the cord is burned through.

Safely dispose of all of the ritual components.

HOW TO RE-PROTECT YOURSELF

After the cord cutting is performed, take a moment to close out the protective circle that was created with the support of the elements. These steps will be done in reverse order from how they were first performed.

Stand up and facing North, speak: “Thank you to the North and the element of Earth for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting and allowing my energy to return to me cleansed and recharged. Thank you and farewell.”

Turning left and facing West, speak: “Thank you to the West and the element of Water for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting and allowing my energy to return to me cleansed and recharged. Thank you and farewell.”

Turning left and facing South, speak: “Thank you to the South and the element of Fire for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting and allowing my energy to return to me cleansed and recharged. Thank you and farewell.”

Turning left and facing East, speak: “Thank you to the East and the element of Air for protecting and assisting me with this cord cutting and allowing my energy to return to me cleansed and recharged. Thank you and farewell.”

HOW TO RE-CLEANSE YOURSELF

To cleanse your energy (and space if you feel it’s necessary) after the cord cutting, you can utilize the same method you did at the beginning of the ritual, such as smoke cleansing with sacred dried herbs, using sound cleansing with bells or singing bowls, or utilizing energy clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends.

Alternatively, you also might opt for something that’s more personal to cleanse yourself, such as a ritual cleansing shower or bath. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs again, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around yourself or your space, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing your energy so that you feel clean, refreshed, and energized.

HOW TO RE-GROUND YOURSELF

Grounding after cord cutting is incredibly important as it ensures that any excess energy is redirected back to the ground/earth. You can ground your energy utilizing the same method you did at the beginning of the ritual, such as spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagine roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, etc.

May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.

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