Creating a sacred space is an essential part of many pagan, spiritual, and religious practices. An altar serves as a focal point for connecting with the divine, performing rituals, and honoring your spiritual path. Whether you are new to this part of your path or not, this guide is intended to help walk you through the fundamentals of building an altar.
For me personally, my altar spaces are treated with the same respect and reverence as an inner room of an ancient temple might have. If you have a particular spiritual path you follow, you may opt to look into the ancient temple traditions of your belief system.
Altars can be indoors or outdoors—choosing between the two is completely up to you. The main thing that’s important is that the location you select feels right to you and won’t be disturbed by others. Ideally, it should be a space where you feel comfortable and can focus on your spiritual practice without interruptions.
You can have a stationary altar that you set up on a shelf or counter space, or you can create a travel altar that is smaller in size and contained in a designated box that’s easily transportable (super helpful for people who often stay in hotels or other people’s homes), or you can create a permanent or temporary altar outdoors, such as in your garden, courtyard, patio, etc.
For me, I have altar spaces that are in my room, bathroom, and living areas that align energetically with those areas of my home and the elements of spirit that I want to connect with. For example, the altar(s) that I have for the water entities that I work with are around the bathtub (near water). Whereas the divine beings that I do astral work with, I keep in my bedroom (near where I sleep). For you, if you’re working with household spirits, you may choose your hearth for your altar, or if you’re an herbalist, you might opt for a kitchen altar.
Before setting up your altar, you’ll want to cleanse the space of any negative or stagnant energy that’s lingering. You can use your preferred method, such as smoke cleansing, sound cleansing, spraying Florida water or cleansing spray, or whatever your go-to cleansing method is. Oftentimes, this also aligns with elements of your craft that you’re already drawn to. For example, if you’re someone who typically utilizes herbs in your practice, you might be more likely to opt for burning incense or yerba santa or something similar to cleanse with the smoke.
Next, you’ll want to designate what the altar is going to be for and select items that align with the energy of the space you’re consecrating. Your altar can be a general working one that is flexible to your needs (a very common option for eclectic practitioners), it can be designated for a specific deity or divine being you’ve chosen to work with and honor, it can be dedicated to yourself, such as your higher self, inner child, or inner teen, or whatever your intentions are spiritually.
While there is no “wrong” or “right” way to set up your altar (and no two altars are alike, nor should they be), here are some things you might consider to help give you some ideas and point you in the right direction.
When it comes to creating your altar, it is important to remember that this space is sacred and should be treated as such. It is your designated area where you can connect with your spirituality or practice your rituals. Remember that there are no strict rules when it comes to designing an altar—it is a reflection of who you are and what holds significance in your spiritual journey. So let your creativity flow and trust your intuition when arranging each element on your sacred space. Ultimately, this process should bring a sense of joy, comfort, and connection whenever you engage with it.
Recently, I was asked to put together a series of resources on deity work and honor, so this article is the beginning of many resources to come.
In pagan and spiritual beliefs, deities are considered powerful, divine beings that embody different aspects of nature, the universe, and human experience. These deities are often revered for their wisdom, guidance, protection, and support on humans’ healing journeys. They have unique qualities and characteristics that influence various aspects of life, such as love, fertility, war, healing, wisdom, and creativity.
Deities can take many forms, including personified gods and goddesses, animals or symbols, frequencies or energies, and more. Many spiritual practitioners understand deities as interconnected forces that exist within and around us, guiding us on our spiritual journey and helping us connect with the divine energies of the universe.
To start off this article and topic, let’s discuss what we mean at the Sacred Wisdom Society when we are talking about deity work or honoring deities.
Deity Work — This involves directly contacting, communicating with, building a relationship with, and tapping into the energy of a specific personified (persona = mask) god or goddess. Working with a deity can be a one-off, a short-term connection, or a long-term partnership.
For some, depending on their goals and intentions, they may invoke or evoke a deity for a single ritual, such as Aphrodite in a self-love working.
In other situations, a deity may be present for a finite window of time while someone is navigating a new chapter in their life, such as Brigid in seasons of creativity.
And in some instances, deities may be in someone’s life for a longer duration, such as when someone is a daughter or son of a god or goddess, a devotee of a deity, or even a priest or priestess to the entity. These types of connections formed with the gods are not for the faint of heart, nor are they intended for everyone to pursue. They also are not required for any type of spiritual or occult path you’re pursuing, so do not feel pressured to dive into deity work if you don’t feel the pull of a god or goddess or have a natural draw to the field.
Honoring Deities — This involves the acknowledgment of the role or title of a particular deity. Anyone can honor any deity and not work with them, venerate them, or be devoted to them. This typically comes from a general place of respect for the being in question but doesn’t have the same weight and expectations of actually working with them on a regular basis. Think of this as having admiration for a celebrity. You might have a poster or things that are symbolic of them in your home, but you wouldn’t claim them to be a personal friend or family member of yours when you don’t actually know them in that capacity.
As briefly mentioned above, deity work is for spiritual practitioners who feel called by a particular god or goddess to actively build a relationship with them and potentially even devote themselves to the higher being. This isn’t meant for everyone, but for those who are called to it, I have no doubt you will find a great deal of fulfillment through the process. On the other hand, honoring a deity is something that can be practiced by anyone regardless of their spiritual path much like how anyone can admire a celebrity and enjoy their energy, what they represent, etc.
Everyone is different, of course, but for me and many other spiritual practitioners, diving into deity work or even simply choosing to recognize or honor a particular being is incredibly fulfilling. For me, I often see and hear the being I’m working with, and nearly every time, I am in awe of their beauty and moved to tears by the love and comfort of their energy. Each god and goddess has their own “vibe” and brings different emotions and feelings to the surface, so that can play a big role in how you feel once you start dabbling in this practice as well.
Absolutely not. Can it be difficult and uncomfortable at times because it requires us to be spiritually open and learn to heal ourselves through these higher connections? Yes, of course. But it is not inherently dangerous or evil, though anytime we dabble in the spiritual realms, we can certainly become susceptible to malicious unseen forces, that is why the practice of grounding, cleansing, protection, banishing, and spiritual discernment is incredibly important.
Most definitely. Though the intentions for how deity work is used is ultimately up to the spiritual practitioner, if your goals are to heal and grow personally and help others as well, then it can certainly be used for good. Alternatively, as with any spiritual practice, the knowledge and wisdom that comes with dabbling in deity work, or even the way their personified energies can be evoked and invoked, can certainly be used to bring about destruction and harm to both the living and the dead as well. This makes it all the more critical to be discerning, mature, and prudent in how you navigate these relationships, and how you’re working with the energy. As with all things though, the choice is yours in how you practice and what you do with this power.
While it can sound scary to dabble with something so weighty, we do not need to fear deity work itself, as long as we are educated on what it is, know how to properly ground, cleanse, and protect ourselves before practicing, and are clear on our intentions, there is so much healing, growth, and transformation simply waiting to burst forth.
As with any spiritual practice that aims to connect with the other side, spirits, or the deceased, it is important to understand that there are beings in existence that are malicious or malevolent in nature. If at any point you find yourself dealing with an entity that is parasitic, know that this is NOT the spirit of a god or goddess, but rather an entity whose only intention is to feed off the life force of whatever host it can latch onto. If you are unfamiliar with these types of entities, I would strongly caution you against dabbling in deity work until you are well-educated on them, as you can put an unnecessary target on yourself. You can learn more about parasitic entities here.
If you’re already familiar with the fundamentals of grounding, cleansing, protection, banishing, and parasitic entities, you’ll have a good basis for everything that we’ll dive into relating to deity work and honor. However, if your only goal is to honor a deity and not necessarily communicate or work with them, don’t stress yourself out about these other topics, though they are helpful to know regardless of your path.
Within paganism and deity work, many deities are grouped into “pantheons” which are lumped together often based on region, culture, or religion that recognized a certain set of gods and goddesses. At the Sacred Wisdom Society, we understand that this division is important for people to categorize different beings while still recognizing the synchronicities between them, but with that being said, we don’t particularly like to view divine beings in man-made constructs like pantheons if we don’t have to—for the sake of simplicity though, and aiding you on your research, we’ve highlighted below a small handful of pantheons and popular gods and goddesses that people work with or honor. Generally speaking though, we typically steer away from the pantheon “boxes” that gods and goddesses are put into, especially when thinking about the 117 epithets of Spirit, or Lady Wisdom, that are fundamental to our beliefs at the Sacred Wisdom Society.
Greek Pantheon:
Popular deities people petition from the Greek Pantheon: Zeus, Hera, Poseidon, Athena, Apollo, Artemis, Ares, Aphrodite, Hephaestus, Hermes, Demeter, Dionysus
Mesopotamian Pantheon:
Popular deities people petition from the Mesopotamian Pantheon: Anu, Enlil, Ea, Marduk, Ishtar, Shamash, Nanna
Egyptian Pantheon:
Popular deities people petition from the Egyptian Pantheon: Ra, Osiris, Isis, Anubis, Horus, Thoth, Bastet
Canaanite Pantheon:
Popular deities people petition from the Canaanite Pantheon: El, Ba’el, Asherah, Astarte, Anat, Mot
Norse Pantheon:
Popular deities people petition from the Norse Pantheon: Odin, Thor, Freya, Frigg, Loki, Baldr, Heimdallr
Grounding before any form of deity work is incredibly important as it ensures that you are connected to your body, the material realm, and very much present for everything that is to follow. You can ground your energy in several ways including, spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, and more. Remember that grounding is a personal practice, so feel free to explore different techniques and find what works best for you.
To cleanse the energy of your space before performing any type of deity work, you can smoke cleanse with sacred dried herbs, sound cleanse with bells or singing bowls, or utilize energy-clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends. Each method has its unique way of clearing negative energy and creating a positive environment for your deity energy work, so use whatever method is easily doable and works best for you. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing the space you’ll be working in of any negative or stagnant energy so that you have a neutral starting point.
After cleansing the space to bring it to a neutral state energetically speaking, you’ll then want to protect yourself and the space from any additional unwanted energies from entering. This is a critical step as it helps minimize the risk of parasitic entities or malevolent beings from sneaking their way into your space while spiritual doorways or portals are “open” — do not ever skip protective steps when performing any type of deity working, even if it’s a seemingly simple or straightforward practice. Protection can be implemented by setting an energetic boundary, such as casting a circle, if this aligns with your spiritual path and beliefs, wearing protective crystals, such as black obsidian, black tourmaline, or hematite, or casting a protection spell, or utilizing a protective ward.
You can protect your space and create a protective circle with the support of the elements using the steps below.
Facing East, speak: “Thank you to the East and the element of Air for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aim to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Hail and welcome!”
Turning right and facing South, speak: “Thank you to the South and the element of Fire for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aim to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Hail and welcome!”
Turning right and facing West, speak: “Thank you to the West and the element of Water for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aim to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Hail and welcome!”
Turning right and facing North, speak: “Thank you to the North and the element of Earth for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aim to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Hail and welcome!”
After effectively grounding yourself and cleansing and protecting the space you’ll be working in, here are a few different methods that I have personally used to practice deity work as taught to me by my spirit guides. Remember, after the deity working is performed, you will want to close out the ritual in reverse order by re-protecting yourself and your space, re-cleansing yourself and your space from any lingering negative or stagnant energy, and re-grounding yourself to diffuse built-up energy from the working itself.
After the deity working, you’ll want to re-protect your energetic field to repair any places where vulnerabilities may have arisen following connecting with liminal space. Take a moment to visualize your energy being slowly mended and strengthened before closing out the protective circle that was created with the support of the elements. These steps will be done in reverse order from how they were first performed.
Stand up and facing North, speak: “Thank you to the North and the element of Earth for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aimed to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Thank you and farewell.”
Turning left and facing West, speak: “Thank you to the West and the element of Water for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aimed to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Thank you and farewell.”
Turning left and facing South, speak: “Thank you to the South and the element of Fire for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aimed to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Thank you and farewell.”
Turning left and facing East, speak: “Thank you to the East and the element of Air for protecting and assisting me through this deity working, allowing only the divine being I aimed to connect with to be present, and preventing any energies that aren’t aligned with my highest good from entering this sacred space. Thank you and farewell.”
Be intentional going forward to protect your energy. Find what works best for you, whether it be veiling (wearing a head covering), wearing protective crystals, wearing a protective talisman or amulet, shielding through glamour magick, or whatever your preferred method is.
To cleanse your energy (and space if you feel it’s necessary) after performing this deity working, you can utilize the same method you did at the beginning of the ritual, such as smoke cleansing with sacred dried herbs, using sound cleansing with bells or singing bowls, or utilizing energy clearing sprays like Florida water or other cleansing blends.
Alternatively, you also might opt for something that’s more personal to cleanse yourself, such as a ritual cleansing shower or bath. Remember to be intentional through the process, so if you are going to cleanse with burning dried herbs again, for example, do not simply wave the burning herbs and smoke around yourself or your space, but set your intentions and focus on cleansing your energy so that you feel clean, refreshed, and energized.
Grounding after a deity working is incredibly important as it ensures that any excess energy is redirected back to the ground/earth. You can ground your energy utilizing the same method you did at the beginning of the ritual, such as spending time in nature, walking barefoot on the grass or soil to feel the connection to the earth, sitting crisscross on the ground to connect your root energy source to the earth, imagine roots growing from your feet into the earth anchoring you firmly, practicing intentional breathing exercises, etc.
Remember, just as we tend to our physical bodies with care and attention, so too must we nurture our spiritual well-being. By cultivating a practice of grounding, cleansing, and protecting ourselves we can fortify our energetic boundaries and safeguard our essence from anything who seeks to drain it.
May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.
Ah, the mysteries of All Snakes Day, a lesser-known but intriguing alternative to Saint Patrick’s Day in the mainstream world—but very much a popular topic each year amongst pagan peoples.
Celebrating “All Snakes Day” each year on March 17th as a protest against St. Patrick’s Day has become common amongst modern pagan peoples in response to the myth of St. Patrick driving out the “snakes” in Ireland. This has long been regurgitated as a metaphor for suppressing or driving out Druid Priests and Pagan Peoples during the rise of Irish Catholicism.
Though there are many opinions floating around and little historical evidence to back these claims, here is my personal take on it. Despite St. Patrick not being personally responsible for every action that took place relating to the rise of monotheism, and specifically Christianity, in Ireland at the time, he very much has become a symbol for that era and movement.
If anything, the fact of Patrick’s much smaller role in Christianizing Ireland should be a reason to do away with St. Patrick’s Day, not All Snakes Day. Yet, Irish and Irish-descended people, along with plenty of non-Irish people, continue to celebrate his myth every March. Why? Because myths have power; when they are amplified through many voices and many years, they gain even more power.
All the while, the sacred symbol of snakes as a representation of esoteric wisdom and the Great Goddess, has been continuously trampled over the centuries. When I think of All Snakes Day, regardless of the significance (or lack thereof) of St. Patrick’s role in Christianizing the “heathen” lands, I love the idea of honoring and celebrating the serpent, a symbol of transformation, rebirth, and healing not just in Celtic culture, but throughout ancient traditions worldwide.
Sure, there may not be historical evidence of an Irish pagan genocide or a great violent Druid Priest purge—but the rise of monotheism has no doubt altered the world as we know it today from it once was. Many of us who choose to continue celebrating All Snakes Day are simply fighting myth with myth, and recognizing a symbol that is representative of who we are and what we believe rather than celebrating an individual who does not hold significance to us in our nature worship and pagan practices.
Now when we dive into fighting myth with myth, I love this quote from D.R. Bartlett,
This is where it gets slippery; we’re treading into the realm of myth and symbol, which is notoriously “faulty” and not at all “logical.” That those who created the myth of Patrick – probably Medieval monks, aided and abetted by story-telling commoners – assigned the man who supposedly Christianized Ireland with also cleansing it of serpents isn’t a random coincidence. Neither was it thrown in as some secondary superpower, like making roses bloom in the desert; the snake is a very powerful, significant symbol in Christianity. Of course there isn’t an explicit connection between snakes and Druids in the literature. That’s precisely because snakes were already understood symbols that listeners could infer what they stood for: Druids, soothsayers, or whatever other un-Christian group is currently in the Church’s crosshairs.
So, in summation, the whole St. Patrick myth is just that – mythology. He didn’t convert the whole island to Christianity all by himself and Ireland never had any snakes to begin with. Again quoting Daimler, “Bad history does Paganism no favors.” I agree. So what does all this have to do with modern-day Pagans and All Snakes’ Day? It has to do with power: specifically, the power of myths and symbols. As commenter Crossing the Abyss states on Daimler’s blog, “mythological histories are far more significant psychologically than actual historical events.”
D.R. Bartlett
St. Patrick, “driving out the snakes” represents, factually or not, Catholicism’s conquest over Paganism in Ireland. So for me, choosing to celebrate All Snakes Day, is about continuing to follow the old ways. Embracing that which has been believed to be lost, forgotten, or done away with. And honoring the Great Goddess, and all of the goddesses associated with snakes, serpents, and sacred wisdom.
For those on a Celtic Pagan path, the goddess Brigid is one of the primary divine beings associated with snakes. Brigid’s connection with snakes deepens her role as a guardian of esoteric knowledge, guiding seekers through their own personal transformations and illuminating the hidden mysteries of the universe. Just as the snake spirals around itself in a dance of constant renewal, so too does Brigid inspire us to explore the deeper mysteries of our existence and emerge wiser.
Hekate, the triple-formed goddess of the crossroads, magic, and the underworld, is often depicted accompanied by snakes as symbols of transformation and renewal. Her wisdom transcends boundaries and guides those who seek her counsel through the depths of their soul.
Lilith, a figure of feminine power and independence, is often associated with serpents as symbols of wisdom and temptation. Lilith embodies the untamed aspects of femininity and challenges societal norms with her fierce spirit.
Medusa, while often misunderstood as a monster, Medusa’s story holds deeper truths. The snakes adorning her head symbolize hidden wisdom and protection. Those who gaze upon her reflect on their own inner darkness and fears.
Meretseger, the Egyptian cobra goddess of the Theban necropolis, Meretseger watches over sacred lands with a vigilant eye. Her serpentine form embodies protection and guardianship over hidden knowledge buried beneath the sands of time.
Renenutet, The Egyptian cobra-headed goddess of nourishment and abundance, Renenutet’s serpentine presence signifies the cycles of growth and harvest. She bestows blessings upon those who cultivate wisdom with patience and diligence.
Wadjet, the Egyptian cobra goddess of protection and royalty, Wadjet’s image adorns crowns as a symbol of divine authority. Her wisdom shields those who honor her with grace and guidance.
Nagapooshani, the Hindu serpent goddess revered for her transformative powers and connection to primal energy. Nagapooshani’s serpentine form represents the kundalini energy that rises within seekers on the path to enlightenment.
Athena, the Greek goddess of wisdom and warfare, Athena’s association with snakes reflects her strategic intellect and ability to navigate challenges with grace. Her wisdom shines like a beacon for those in search of clarity amidst chaos.
Astarte, the Phoenician goddess of fertility and war, is often depicted with serpents coiled around her arms, symbolizing rebirth and regeneration. In her embrace, the snake represents the shedding of old skin to reveal a new self, much like the cycles of life and death.
Isis, the Egyptian goddess of magic and motherhood, is closely associated with the serpent as well. In Egyptian mythology, she used the power of snakes to protect her child Horus, and to bring healing to the sick. The snake here embodies protection and healing energies, guiding us through the shadows to find light.
Hathor, the Egyptian goddess of love, music, and joy, also shares a connection with serpents. In some depictions, she wears a headdress adorned with horns and a sun disk flanked by cobras. These serpents symbolize her power to strike down those who threaten her devotees while also representing the duality of life – both destructive and regenerative forces intertwined. feeding off them for quite some time.
Honor the serpentine energies that weave through the mysteries of the universe.
May you walk your path with wisdom and prudence. Blessed be on your journey of spiritual growth and healing.
Blessed be, Wise Ones!
Blessed be, Silent Ones!
Blessed be, Serpents!
Friday the 13th, a date that has long been associated with bad luck, superstition, and evil. But what many people may not realize is that it’s a fascinating tale that goes beyond mere superstition and bad luck, finding its origins in the sacred goddess worship of pagan peoples. Being a less frequent occurrence in a given year, with the 13th of the month falling on a Friday an average of 1.72 times a year in the Gregorian calendar, there are a lot of conflicting beliefs depending on what your cultural background and beliefs may be. For some, Friday the 13th is a day to batten down the hatches and hide themselves away, and for others, it’s a holy day in its own right, that is to be honored and embraced.
For us, at the Sacred Wisdom Society, we hold the latter view that Friday the 13th is a sacred day. The significance of Friday in this context cannot be overstated. Known as “Frigg’s Day,” it was actually named after Frigg (/frɪɡ/; Old Norse: [ˈfriɡː]) a goddess, one of the Æsir, in Germanic mythology. In Norse mythology, the source of most surviving information about her, she is associated with marriage, prophecy, clairvoyance, and motherhood, and dwells in the wetland halls of Fensalir. She was the Queen of Asgard, wife of Odin, and mother of Baldur. Her name translated literally as “beloved” and she was held in very high status amongst the people of the time. Sound like any other Great Lady’s you know of?
A quick Google search, regardless of your spiritual beliefs will highlight the origins of the naming of Western days of the week (much like how the names of the planets in our solar system line up with many of the gods and goddesses of ancient cultures—hmm—coincidence?) In many ancient cultures, Friday was considered a day to honor and celebrate Frigg, or the Great Goddess (singular), or all of the goddesses (plural), or the sacred divine feminine that’s in all of us, or even simply the power of the womb to bring forth life.
The beliefs when paganism are vast, with people of many different backgrounds and traditions finding their own way to connect to divinity and the universe. What many pagans had in common, though, was a true reverence for nature and the energy that connects us all, often brought into existence through the goddesses we can connect to and understand on a smaller scale, who symbolized different aspects of life, such as the moon, animals, trees, liminal space, healing, elements, etc. This reverence for the divine feminine led to Friday being seen as an auspicious day for honoring these goddesses and our own role that we play in the grand universe that we live in.
The number 13 has long been associated with mysticism and sacredness in various cultures around the world. From ancient civilizations to modern-day beliefs, the significance of this number has captured the imagination of many. One fascinating aspect of the number 13 is its connection to lunar cycles. The lunar cycle, which spans approximately 29.5 days, represents the phases of the moon as it orbits around the Earth, with approximately 12-13 lunar cycles in a single solar cycle (one year). This alignment between the sacred number 13 and lunar cycles adds another layer of mystique to their significance, with many pagans recognizing this connection symbolizes harmony between celestial rhythms and earthly existence.
Furthermore, many ancient cultures revered both numbers separately for their own unique symbolism. The number 13 often represents transformation, rebirth, and spiritual growth. This, with lunar cycles’ association with feminine energy, intuition, and cyclical patterns found in nature, makes understanding why the number 13 is considered sacred even more intriguing.
Paganism played a significant role in shaping these beliefs surrounding Friday the 13th, which was a rare conjunction between the already beloved day of Frigg or the goddess and the symbolic number 13. Over time, however, as societal norms shifted and religious beliefs changed, these pagan traditions were demonized by those seeking to establish new power structures.
According to folklorists, there is no evidence for the superstition of an unlucky Friday the 13th before the 19th century. Rumors of Friday the 13th being negatively associated with Christian beliefs, such as Jesus Christ being crucified on this day took hold of people over the last couple centuries. Other links to 13 and Friday came about with a different view of the betrayal of Jesus Christ by Judas, with 13 people being present at the Last Supper, the Norse tale of the god Baldur dying after the god Loki, a 13th guest at a dinner party arrived and mischief ensured. But regardless of how these tales seemingly ended, they all played roles in the death and rebirth cycles told through stories at the time and were never intended to be bad omens of a Friday falling on the 13th of the month.
Even in modern times, pop-culture films have harped on the fears of people surrounding Friday the 13th, known as paraskevidekatriaphobia or friggatriskaidekaphobia, to further perpetuate narratives of freak accidents, serial killers being on the loose, and the like.
It is important to recognize, though, that behind this superstition lies a rich history of sacredness and reverence for the divine feminine. By understanding its origins in pagan goddess worship, we can shed light on the true meaning behind Friday the 13th — an opportunity to reconnect with our own spirituality and embrace the power of nature’s cycles once again.
There are many ways to honor the divine feminine, goddesses, or even your own sacred feminine energy on Friday the 13th. Through rituals, self-care practices, and more, you can tap into the sacred energy of the feminine and foster a deep connection with the divine.
Rituals play a significant role in honoring the divine feminine. Whether it’s through full moon ceremonies, lighting a candle and meditating, or performing sacred dances, these rituals allow you to channel your intentions and connect with the powerful energy that resides within you. By creating sacred space and setting intentions, you can invite the divine feminine to guide and empower you on your spiritual journey.
Self-care is another vital aspect of honoring the divine feminine. Taking time for yourself to nurture your mind, body, and soul is an act of self-love that aligns with the nurturing qualities associated with femininity. Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you recharge — whether it’s practicing yoga or meditation, indulging in herbal baths or aromatherapy, or simply spending time in nature, find what works best for you.
Incorporating symbols of femininity into your daily life can also be a beautiful way to honor the divine feminine. Adorn your sacred space with images or statues of goddesses who embody qualities such as love, compassion, strength, and wisdom. Wear crystals like rose quartz or moonstone that resonate with feminine energy. Embrace flowing fabrics and colors that evoke feelings of femininity within you.
Remember that honoring the divine feminine is not just about external practices; it’s also about cultivating a deep sense of respect for yourself as a woman or person who identifies with femininity. Embrace your unique strengths and gifts as they align with this powerful energy. Celebrate your intuition, creativity, and compassion — all those qualities that make up the essence of femininity.
By incorporating rituals into your spiritual practice, engaging in self-care activities that nourish your soul, surrounding yourself with symbols of femininity, and embracing your unique qualities, you can honor the divine feminine and invite its transformative energy into your life. Embrace the beauty of the divine feminine within you and let it guide you on a path of empowerment, love, and spiritual growth.
What are your thoughts on Friday the 13th?
